Discover Leadership Training

If your behaviors are not producing the success you want at work, at home, with your significant other, with your children or the success you want regarding your health, then it's time to choose some new behaviors The behaviors you need to be successful are just as available as the behaviors that are not producing what you want I'm just sayin'

Today you have another opportunity to create an unreasonable possibility Who will you choose to be today that gets you closer to realizing your biggest dream? Well, go for it! I am on your team and I am here cheering like crazy By the way, it will be okay to surround yourself with a few more enthusiastic cheerleaders

If I am committed to be in the moment and I am focused on the outcome, why is it necessary to navigate through "what ifs"? It is time to TAN baby! (Take Action Now) You have heard me say, "It is impossible to awaken someone who is pretending to be asleep" Well, my question for you this morning is, "Where in your life are you pretending to be asleep?" Have the courage today to look at everything around you with your eyes wide open Choose to live your life out loud and see what happens You might be surprised at all the Unreasonable Possibilities that come into focus for you

I believe that the definition of love is accepting a person for who they are and for who they are not Fall in love with yourself today You are whole and complete You Matter You Count

Continually asking yourself, "What else will I do to get to my outcome?" allows you to move through circumstances quickly Blaming others only serves to keep you stuck So, who will you choose to be today to get to your outcomes? I agree that you are ONLY one person; however, whatever you do today will matter So, do something positive Hmm

enough said

Failure is the refusal to give up all of that junk from your past that you do not need The more you focus on that stuff the more it controls the next choice that you make Okay, this is not a conversation about getting over anything; it is however, a conversation about getting on with it So move your butt

Life is a series of thousands of circumstances Every circumstance is an opportunity No matter what is happening in your life you can choose to see every circumstance as an opportunity You can choose to see the positive and know that success is just ahead if you remain FOTO (Focused On The Outcome) and continue to move forward Have you chosen to see the challenges or the opportunities? What you focus on will expand

Each of us has a personal map that was developed by our experiences and what we were taught by others They didn't know everything; therefore, the highest form of ignorance is to reject something just because it's not on your map Your map is not the whole territory

it's just your map

Let's make a commitment to no more pity parties Step 1: Accept personal responsibility for whatever is going on I know that can be tough Step 2: Have the courage to set a positive outcome and, regardless of the circumstance, start moving in a forward positive direction Yay Yay, that's it! Remain focused on that outcome and move your butt Now, let's get back to that party and celebrate because "TODAY" is worth celebrating Hey, let's get up tomorrow and do this again

Theodore Roosevelt said in his Fireside Motto "It is not the critic who counts, it's not the man who points out how the strong man stumbled or where the doer of deeds could have done them better - the credit belongs to the person who is actually in the arena " Play full out and live your life on purpose and stay focused on your positive outcomes in spite of your critics Oh, and by the way those critics are some of the best gifts you will ever receive, I'm Just Sayin

Someone once said, only those who risk going too far will ever know how far they can go Every one of us occupies the largest room in the house and that is the room for improvement I encourage you to step outside of your comfort zone today You just might learn that it is "Not Over" until YOU say it is over

Rather than focusing on all of the things and people in your life that need to change to make you happy - simply choose to be happy Be aware that happiness is not a thing that lives outside of you; it is a choice you get to make Oops, there is that Personal Responsibility thing again Oh and just in case you did not notice, the common denominator in every one of those relationships is you Ok, it's your move now

None of us had any control over what we brought into this world; however, we are 100% in control of what we leave the world with as a result of our choices Oh my goodness, there is that choice lesson again

Enthusiasm is a form of excitement and it is contagious As children, we had unbridled enthusiasm, and yet for many, it was slowly defused and bridled as we became adults It's not too late to recapture the zest for life you had as a child The only reason we get old is because we forget to play Today is play day! It is important to surround yourself with the kind of people who will support you and hold you accountable to play at a higher level Why set a positive outcome to become an eagle and then surround yourself with chickens? Let's rethink that approach

If you continue "right fighting" with yourself and others to prove how weak you are, how ill-equipped you are, or how you can't do something, there is no need to wonder who will win that fight That future has already been created Congratulations, you got to be right How's that working for you? Love the alarm clock across the room Make a commitment to yourself that when the alarm goes off, you will get out of bed and stay up Every time you hit that snooze button you are saying "no thank you" to the new day Promise yourself that you will never say "no thank you" for the gift of the morning again BTW, every day starts with a morning I'm just sayin'

The only way to affect the score on the scoreboard is to get in the game It is always too soon to quit Your victory is just one step away Remember, our motto is iFOTO (i Focus On The Outcome)

Look around and I know you will agree that change is inevitable; however, growth is optional Unless you choose to grow, the success you have experienced up until now is dying and decaying Okay, that is not a pretty picture; time to step up to your next level of growth

Emotions can help us overcome inertia and ignite us to take action; however, emotions will rarely sustain the action taken You must identify the benefits of the actions you are taking Those benefits will help you sustain your focus and commitment to keep moving forward

A healthy attitude is contagious, so don't wait to catch it from others Be a carrier It has been said in many different ways that attitudes are contagious and it is true Make the choice to infect those around you today with a positive attitude

Take a moment to compare the difference in the negative energy you feel when you are running from something you do not want to the positive energy you feel when you are running to something you want Set a positive outcome today and focus on what you want It feels so good My motto is iFOTO (i Focus On The Outcome)

People who are self-motivated see opportunity where others see obstacles The opportunities these self-motivated people see motivates others Be self-motivated Why not you? Why not now? Every one of us is an artist Your thinking creates a sculpture signifying how you lived your life Take a step back today and look at what you have created so far and determine if you are creating the masterpiece you want to leave with those you care most about

It is tougher to climb up a mountain than it is to climb down a mountain; however, the best view is generally available after you reach the top I realize that getting to the top of that mountain can be very tough; however, I also realize how rewarding it can be Every day of our lives we get to make one of two choices, tough or suffering My coaching to you is to choose tough, embrace tough, fall in love with taking on tough When you do, you will create unreasonable possibilities WAYFO? (What Are You Focused On?) The moment you totally commit yourself and begin giving 100 percent to what you say you want, a certain momentum develops Total commitment and accepting personal responsibility results in a certain magical boldness; a boldness that has genius and power that are evident based on the fruit produced by your actions How sweet is your fruit? Things no longer own you when you have the courage to detach from them Everything you fight against weakens you and hinders your ability to see the positive opportunities in the obstacle What are you holding on to this morning that has passed its expiration date?